I just got it, there isn't anything to "forgive"; if someone is unconscious of what they do then you can't "really" forgive that. But once you know this you can forgive them for their unconsciousness (in a general way). "Forgive them they know not what they do." Therefore "forgiveness" is implied in your Presence, your Being, your attention to the Now. And Gratitiude comes in, but not the mind-made type. A multi-dimensional ecstatic shower of Thanks for Being!